{17} Thail& Perspective Shifts

 
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As anticipated, my exploration in Thailand opened my mind to new possibilities, world views, & ways of life. Moreover, new perspectives were illuminated during my trip in one way I did not anticipate: I discovered a goose in a bottle.

(If you do not know the story of the goose in a bottle and would love to hear more, comment 🦆 below. For the sake of the current post: previously unrecognized, personal beliefs limited my potential.)


In Chiang Mai, I experienced new, unique cuisine – markets, fresh street food, and how to cook some of northern Thailand’s most popular dishes; I joyously rode in tuk tuks & nervously drove a moped on the left side of the road; I explored a culture of trusting customers to pay later, walked through beautiful temples, and felt safer than I do in the United States.

While in Thailand I also faced & reconsidered previously held, personal beliefs about travel: prior to Chiang Mai, I believed travel was unjustifiably expensive, unsafe, difficult, and unnecessary.

  • Unjustifiably expensive: my last-minute ticket to southeast Asia was not a penny. However, when I seriously looked at my budget in relation to the possibility of this trip, I quite easily rearranged to sponsor the journey. Once in Thailand, meals cost $1 to $3 and splendid hotels were less than $40 a night. I quickly experienced the reality of affordable travel.
  • Unsafe: From day one, I was surprised to feel an overwhelming sense of comfort in Chiang Mai. By the end of my trip, I realized I felt safer in Thailand than I did at home. For example: during my entire two-week trip, I was never cat called or uncomfortably approached by a stranger (something that happens daily as a female in the US).
  • Difficult: I feared I was a fool to plan this trip 10 days before departure. Yet from the time I booked my flights, shopped for travel essentials, packed, planned activities abroad, and flew across the globe and back – I experienced ease. This trip was a breath of fresh air.
  • Unnecessary: my nature to protect myself from questioning long-held beliefs led me to label travel as unnecessary because it felt out of reach (see points above). Once I realized the possibility of travel, I realized travel absolutely aligned with my authentic values & desires.

New perspective were certainly gained as I traveled abroad this December, && I was pleasantly surprised to realize this in more ways than one.

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Where do you desire to experience a new perspective? What is one resource you could embrace today that would foster this exploration? What does support look like for you in that process?

Dare to explore, embrace your experience, nourish what is most authentic for you, and align to live your full, authentic life.

{16} How Living in Alignment brought me to Thailand

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In 2014, I hired my first life coach >> my awareness of personal values, beliefs, desires, & un/related actions continues to increase

In 2016, I quit >> with a heightened understanding & respect for my intuition, I listened; I left two commitments that no longer served me, for the pursuit of my most full, authentic life

In 2017, I invested in a budgeting system >> my knowledge of the resources I have, need, & could do without / are nice to have furthers the alignment of my spending & values

In 2018, I was vulnerable >> the relationship with my coach (among other support) provided a strong context to explore, understand, voice, & live my authentic life

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Thailand could have been an intimidating decision. In a time of financial ambiguity, in the throws (& excitement) of year one with Yes&, just a few months after connecting with the man I intended to meet on the other side of the world, planning just a few days before departure…

I purchased my plane ticket 10 days before departing to Thailand, & my decision was made with confidence & intentionality. This level of certainty, that I am currently living & continuously pursing my full, authentic life, is something I am extraordinarily grateful for - and something I can experience because of nurtured support systems with a deep, respected relationship with myself.

What is possible when you live in alignment? ((Share below!))

{15} The Planned & Unplanned

 
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I spoke to my current life, and felt sadness.

“I moved to the city I love, had the courage and resources to leave a misaligned project, immediately received an ideal job offer, am totally in love, depart for Thailand in three days, am energized by the development of my business…”

I listed off my life events to my coach earlier this week. “Wow,” was his reply.

Because he’s been my life coach for one year, we’ve traversed a multitude of events together. Without a doubt, I am awe-inspired by the life I currently live – and I never could have predicted this outcome when we began working together.

And that’s the thing. The realization of my inability to have predicted this life is what provoked my sadness.

You see, my current life is remarkable. Rewind to my previous coaching session when I sat in my office chair: I looked around and confidently (to my amazement) proclaimed, “I made it.” The events list disclosed at the beginning of my coaching call, and the beginning of this post, feels undoubtedly beautiful – and I am sincerely grateful.

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I did not predict my current life. I did not plan to leave the project I began months ago, I did not anticipate accepting a full-time job three months after launching Yes&, I did not know I would have the opportunity or desire to book a last-minute ticket across the globe.

I did not plan this. I could not have planned this. And part of me was saddened by this realization, because a large part of me LOVES planning. “Is there even a point to develop plans and goals and aspirations, then?”

Yes. The answer is yes. Because although my plans do not, and may never, unfold exactly as I intentionally conjure – my vision nevertheless guides me toward my full, authentic life. I am not already working with Yes& full time, but I am involved, full time, with work that is fulfilling and progressive. I have not yet met my income goals, but I am living a life of abundance and ambition.

This week, I reconsidered the inquiry and recognition that plans are valuable && often do not go accordingly, no matter my will. This is great news.

On Monday I launched the Yes& Model Yoga Package. I invite you to step onto your mat and experience this practice exactly as you are. I invite you to inquire with your authentic alignment journey by holding your plans and expectations loosely – trusting that you, too, will land in a life of astonishment and gratitude.

As always, please reach out for additional support via any of my platforms or by visiting yesandbymarin.com